Family and the Future of Love Relationships
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If you look at the average 20 year old, the chances that they have had any real education about relationships and love are pretty slim. Growing up as kids, they probably learned a little biology about the male and female body; they’ve possibly read some love poetry by Shakespeare or some other great author; they’ve usually watched their parents relationship going through some significant ups and downs with little explanation about what’s going on. But in terms of understanding themselves and their needs and requirements for love and relationship the average 20 year old is pretty forbrukslån unprepared for the real world. The main thing parents have the power to change in this area is to become more honest with children about relationships while they are still living at home. With marriage ending in divorce at the rate of about Forbrukslån 50%, it is unfair to teach children that every relationship is supposed to last forever. It is not true that when you fall in love with somebody – or find the right person – you will live happily ever after. Having babies is not the be-all and end-all of relationships and cannot forbrukslan save an unhappy marriage. The form and function of the modern family has changed and children are not responsible for their parents getting divorced (many of them feel they are). Many parents want to hide what goes on in their relationship from their children in the desperate hope that their children will do better than they have done. But it doesn’t work like that! It never has. If you want to see your children have better relationships than you it is necessary to start by helping them learn more about the reality of love and relationship.
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